Big hug. You're not alone. The night my sister got her license she hit her best friend's mother's car in the parking lot of the gay bar they'd been planning to go dancing at.
I was very glad that I went home with our friend Mark rather than going with them. Of course, Mark and I got back to the house AFTER they got back, but they hadn't gone in yet. When I went in, my mom was like, "what did she do that she's been sitting out there this long?"
{{hugs}} Sorry. You're very brave for learning, though! I got two tickets in the first three months I had my license--*and* I managed to hit a metal pole at a gas station--but after that things got much better. I bet if you can just get past the initial learning curve, you'll be fine.
That's what I'm hoping! I don't even have the license yet - maybe I can get all my screw-ups out of the way before they actually start blaming me for them? *g*
Look at it this way: you got it out of the way. It's like the first ding on a new car. Now you can just kind of relax and get on with life.
And hey, I had a heap o' fun making fun of the Dallas County website where I had to go to pay *my* speeding ticket last January. They had a "checkout" page, like you were shopping at amazon.com or something. And then they had the audacity to have a checkbox asking if I'd like to receive "promotional mailings" from Dallas County! Oh, by all means! Please send me spam, Dallas County! *snort*
Thanks! At least the cop was nice about it and didn't ticket me, which would have postponed my eventual taking of the license test by six months. Today, I'm driving the speed limit!
hee! now i'm visualizing the "to-do" list on your dashboard. ;)
ps. i have an action figure of captain picard (captain on the bridge) and a yoda pez on my dashboard. they keep me safe. i also have a to do list, because it's the only way to keep myself from droning home after work and spacing out where i need to stop on the way. heh. *bg*
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Date: 2005-12-13 08:12 pm (UTC)Seriously though, my sympathies.
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Date: 2005-12-13 08:16 pm (UTC)Look at it this way: you got it out of the way. It's like the first ding on a new car. Now you can just kind of relax and get on with life.
And hey, I had a heap o' fun making fun of the Dallas County website where I had to go to pay *my* speeding ticket last January. They had a "checkout" page, like you were shopping at amazon.com or something. And then they had the audacity to have a checkbox asking if I'd like to receive "promotional mailings" from Dallas County! Oh, by all means! Please send me spam, Dallas County! *snort*
Hang in there.
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Date: 2005-12-13 08:18 pm (UTC)Okay, that's rough. *hugs*
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Date: 2005-12-13 10:18 pm (UTC)I'd only been driving for two weeks on my own when I had my first accident. It wasn't serious, but boy did it shake me up. So I hear you.
-J
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Date: 2005-12-13 11:14 pm (UTC)i hope the day gets better, er, i mean got better. *more hugs*
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Date: 2005-12-14 10:41 pm (UTC)ps. i have an action figure of captain picard (captain on the bridge) and a yoda pez on my dashboard. they keep me safe. i also have a to do list, because it's the only way to keep myself from droning home after work and spacing out where i need to stop on the way. heh. *bg*
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